The reason why I don't have much friends here, is because all the people our age are full of kids... and there is ALWAYS the stupid question of "WHEN ARE YOU HAVING KIDS?" omg It's frustrating.... so we have decided to reply (even though its not true): "I'm esterile" so that they can feel awkward about a "sensitive" topic.

Personal decisions... they are PERSONAL! And for some reason I can't stop thinking there is a very tiny little slight ounce of envy in that question... is more like,,,"when are you having kids and stop enjoying life and devote yourselves to some brats who might not thank you enough for all your efforts?, why don't you contribute with the overpopulation like we are?...why don't you join the slavery? its fun!"
I know having kids is a blessing, and a lot of fun... but so it is to NOT have kids... when you do it for a conscious reason.